I've fallen into a stalker'ish minor obsession in the last few days with a most gorgeous man. He wouldn't have any way of knowing I watch him, its all online.
I've spent 4 or 5 hours tracking down every thing there is on the net about him, and check his FB several times a day...
And this is the normal part of this story!
I'm so tempted to put up a photo of him so you all can see why he is so fascinating, but I won't. He looks like a young Brad Pitt! Same scruff of whiskers....
Same alluring intensity in the eyes, confident masculinity with out looking like a macho fool. He's smart and funny from reading his comments and posts, and has a diverse circle of friends and family.
He works for a tech company, seems to have a motorcycle and a comfortable life. He gets along with his parents, although I know there were some rough years in his past. Drinking, jail.
He seems particularly self aware, aware of how damaged he was for a while, before he found himself. And now he seems very happy with who he is.
I've read his blogs and those of one of his lovers...it was by chance and googlefu that I found them, they are not in the normal search anymore, but still findable. And wow. He has a past with twists!
Look at the photo above. What would you think his semi-secret is? Gay? Yeah well he is, but that is not the secret!
I've seen photos of him shirtless and he has a nice chest and flat stomach. He always sports a bit of scruff on his chin and lip, sometimes cheeks...
OK. He looks JUST like the guy above, only real big difference is he has no dick. Literally. Never Did!
"He" is a girl who has had her breasts surgically removed and takes testosterone.
Holy Fuck Chole, you are one sick puppy for cyber stalking a transman and fantasizing about what THAT would be like!
A total guy in looks and attitude, (yeah he pulls off "guy" pretty well!) AND GIRL PARTS BELOW!
TO HIM: if somehow you read this, I so have the weirdest crush ever on you. Yea I know this kind of attention is probably unwelcome, and if I were a perfect little Chloe I would never even write this, but I'm not. I so identify with or want.....how different you are, not that I want what you have, just you are so brave, so hot, and so cool. I don't want to be you, just interesting, complex and a survivor of hurt.
Greta is going to have fun with this in my next therapy session.